Learning to love myself

So growing up I've always been one of the tallest and biggest. Not biggest as in fat but I am very broad and have a big bone structure, as my parents have told me thousands of times, and it has in some way effected my confidence. I am not the tallest anymore due to boys hitting puberty and even some girls are taller than me now especially after going to high school. Still I have always felt out of place because a lot of my friends are much shorter than me and are all very skinny. I do have a few taller friends but even they are slight and skinny and I constantly feel like a stick out like a sore thumb. Until now. I don't know what it is but something has clicked to me in the past year, yes people may judge but who cares everyone is judged and we all judge even though I hate it, it happens. Most of us would never say it to another persons face but we think it because we all have insecurities and we try to build ourselves up and make ourselves feel better by judging others. I mean I still feel as if I stick out, don't get me wrong, but what can you do that's how I am,that's how I was born and meant to be so if you don't like it then you can move on. I know it's cliche but how boring would the world be if we were all the same and it's not all about what you look like on the outside, it's all out the person personality. Me and my friends all used to say 'we're going to marry the hottest boy we can find' but honestly who gives a shit what they look like if there not nice and don't treat you well is it worth it? Anyway over these few of many more years to come of discovering my self I have leant that the best way for me to truly accept myself is to right down the good and bad things about myself. Yes I know that you yourself will put all the bad things but if you do struggle with the good ask a friend to help because they know that there's good in you and will help you to see it. 

I also love to leave my self little notes to remind myself what I want in life. But the one thing I always try to do is to be myself what's the point of changing YOUR personality or style for someone else. 

So by having my own style and being myself it helps me to accept my self and be who I was meant to be. I can't change how I look so why not love the way I look. I might not be the prettiest or the skinniest but I'm me and that all that matters. *Disclaimer* There is no sponsored content in this post and all opinions are my own. X. 

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